In this day and age, folks with vulvas have seemingly infinite ways to experience intense orgasms. From buying a new vibrator to exploring spicy suggestions from TikTok, there are truly so many ways to reach an orgasm. But sometimes you might just want to get back to the tried-and-true basics of masturbating with your hand – or, even better, with a trusty shower head.
Yes, like many people who were born in the 90s, one of the first ways I explored masturbation was not only by using my hand but utilizing the removable, hand-held shower head at the suggestion of a friend in the tenth grade. With a lack of discreet, easy ways to get my hands on innovative and beginner-friendly toys, I had to get creative with what I had.
But now, as we enter into a more sex-positive world, companies are taking the tried-and-true to the next level – and that includes designing a fancy shower head made specifically with your orgasms in mind. Enter: The Womanizer Wave ($119).
Created by Womanizer, the Womanizer Wave is the first product of its kind: a hand-held shower head that yes, you can shower with, but more importantly, you can also use for masturbation. After hearing about the Wave, my first thought was “I can’t wait to try this.” And shortly after, I tried and reviewed what may have become one of my favorite innovations to ever hit the market. Here’s what to know.
What I Love About The Womanizer Wave
When I received the Womanizer Wave and opened the box, the first thing I noticed and loved about it was that it doesn’t look like a sex toy. It looks like a normal shower head. So for anyone who installs it in their shower, no one would ever know it’s also made for self-pleasure. And speaking of installing, this sex toy was easy to configure. It took me only a minute or two to put it together, and then it was ready for action.
When I first tried the Wave out, I noticed (and majorly appreciated) its different functionalities. As someone who is eco-conscious, I was worried I’d be using too much water during my masturbation sessions. But the Wave actually saves water; with EcoSmart tech, it allows users to use 60 percent less water than conventional shower heads, while still being able to make me orgasm. (A win!)
I also loved that using The Wave isn’t too intense of an experience. I personally don’t tend to like sex toys that make me reach climax too quickly, and using The Wave felt like a journey to an orgasm vs. an immediate arrival. Anyone interested in using this plaything could really plan a date night for themselves, with wine near the tub and reading their favorite book, while also using The Wave intermittently through their self-exploration.
It was hard to imagine what a clitoral-stimulating shower head would look like or how it would function, but luckily, we live in a world where we don’t have to.
What’s Worth Noting About The Womanizer Wave
As the first-ever combined shower head and clitoral water massager, I had high expectations for The Womanizer Wave. Having been created by bathroom experts Hansgrohe and the pleasure specialists at Womanizer, I found that the Wave has several things worth noting.
For one, it has three different water jets to switch back and forth from. One is a steady shower stream, called Powder Rain, which you’d likely use to actually wash your hair. Then, there’s the first stream, called a PleasureWhirl, which moves the water in a circular motion to hit just the right spots. The last stream, called the Pleasure Jet, is more of a steady and concentrated stream of water. And with all of these streams, the user can adjust the water pressure with the Intensity Slider button, which moves up and down on the shower head handle.
Another bonus: the shape of the shower head was compact and easy to hold, while the long hose made it easy to move around with it in the shower. If you want to sit down in the bathtub (like I did) or you prefer to stand up or crouch on the edge, it’s not hard to take the shower head with you.
Who is The Womanizer Wave Best For?
After using The Womanizer Wave, I think that while it’s intended for vulva-havers, anyone could use it if they wanted to. It all depends on what you’re into. While it is specifically made for clitoral stimulation, folks of all genders and genitalia could get creative with it and use it to explore other erogenous zones.
Is The Womanizer Wave Worth The Splurge?
At a price tag of $119, I’d say the answer depends on if you’re someone who regularly uses a shower head to masturbate or enjoys masturbating in the shower. Personally, I don’t typically reach for my shower head often because I tend to prefer trying out spicy new toys in the comfort of my bed. But for those who love the feeling of water and a good shower masturbation session, I definitely think it could be worth the price.
It’s also worth mentioning that your chances of reaching an orgasm while using the Wave are quite high. When compared to using a traditional shower head, 88 percent of users have said it’s more arousing, 86 percent said it’s more suitable for masturbating, and 73 percent say it’s also easier to climax, according to Womanizer data. All that to say, if you’re into it, it could be worth making the splash.
Additional Details About The Womanizer Wave
The Womanizer Wave is not only easy to install, but it also comes in three color options: chrome, black and white. So if you’re worried about color coordination in your bathroom, it makes it easy to find a match. When you order the Wave, it also comes with a five-year warranty, free shipping, and of course, discreet packaging. All in all? One of the best, most innovative sex toys on the market.
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Hayley Folk (she/her) is a freelance writer, editor, and podcast host based in New York City. She is the host of the “Naked Folk” podcast – a sexual wellness and relationships podcast – and she writes for major publications about the LGBTQ+ community, travel, lifestyle, sex, and wellness. In 2022, she received her master of fine arts in creative writing from The New School.
